I'm laid-back and fun-loving, but I can also be strict and demand obedience.
I have a background in psychology, so I'm very good at aftercare, protecting my subs both physically and emotionally, and helping my sub to grow as a person and in the lifestyle.
I'm not the right Dom for every sub. No Dom is. I'm not into s/m, heavy bondage, or extreme edge play. I'm attached, so I only play part-time and discretion is a must.
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However, because of my nature and background I'm a great Dom for a new sub. I will be patient, but strict. I give you the emotional support you need during what can be a very emotional transition time in your life with all the new feelings and sensations. If the fit is right you will experience deeper feelings of intimacy than you ever have before.
It is not enough for a first Dom to be real and not just an abuser, he has to be able to help you deal with the emotions and changes and also teach you what to look for in a new Dom when you outgrow me.
I only play sane, safe, and consensual. I will not accept a sub into training who isn't honest about her emotions, communicates poorly, or is too passive. A sub who doesn't know what she wants, can't communicate her needs and desires honestly, or doesn't stand up for herself, even against her Dom (if it's called for) is a danger to herself and a risk to her Dom.
Doms can be wrong and can make mistakes. In a healthy Dom/sub relationship the sub will have respectful ways she can raise issues to her Dom and a good Dom will admit when he's wrong. A sub who is too passive will hold the relationship back from being as intimate as it can be.
I'm into light to moderate bondage, role playing, fantasy fulfillment, spanking, whipping, biting, hair pulling, toys, oral, anal, threesomes, sensory deprivation and lots of other stuff. I'm on a journey of sexual discovery and enlightenment so I'm also open to trying lots of new things too, including an occasional switch.
A sub who pleases me can stay as long as she wants, but I don't hold a sub back if she decides she wants to live the lifestyle 24/7 or wants to get into more extreme play.
When you leave my training you will have all the fundamentals of service down, have a good sense of who you are and where you fit in the lifestyle, and know how to tell the difference between a good Dom and a poser. You will be in a far safer and more knowledgeable position to progress further into the lifestyle.