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I would like to meet a woman who is looking to explore her submissive side with an experienced Dom. I seek the company of an intelligent, self-assured beautiful submissive who takes care of their body and mind. I would like to begin a dialogue to see if we have the required chemistry and connection to explore a D/s relationship. To get to know you and see if we have a potential connection as I only wish to add to your life with my extensive experience and creative mind. I'm interested in where your mind is now and where you need to have it taken too.

A little about my big picture: I totally believe this is as much about the deeper side of our persons as it's about discovering our mutual interests. The result is an expression of how when connected, one can reach those deeper places, those very deeply personal triggers. I'm looking for a submissive who would like to session as often as possible given our schedules. I tend to enjoy exploring all kinds of elements of BDSM. I would sum myself up as a sensual teacher, mentor, and provider of direction with 10 years of experience, bring deeper awareness using all manner of interesting toys, touch and my imagination to capture your mind and body.

Now a little about myself and my interests, I'm a tall, strong, confident, safe (D&D free), sane, very understanding of life events and very experienced open-minded 40’s male Dominant. I am MARRIED and you should be as well or alright with the fact that I am. A wealthy professional living in an upscale area of the county and love what I do. In sum, I'm a well spoken, well dressed business professional and looking for the same in my submissive. I will be happy to share a picture with you as we get to know each other since chemistry, in part is about mutual attraction and connection, about our interactions. As I will also plan on establishing trust and respect on both parts so we proceed accordingly. I have traveled with my job and have seen a lot of what the world has to offer. I'm well read and love to share my life experiences with a submissive looking to explore her needs, wants and desires.

As a result, I know to the core of who I am and how to provide for those deeper things you seek. I have a firm understanding of the dynamic, the alpha male, the experiences you seek and I fully understand how to provide the structure and the environment for you to expand, explore and session with all your submissive yearnings. I'm firm, fair, patient and seek someone that wants to take a wonderful voyage into the depths of their need, want and desire. I work very hard and every progressive session even harder, I do everything with all that I am.

I believe it is important to meet face to face once we determine we have that chemical connection. I don't want an endless e-mail exchange and feel it is important to meet early in the getting to know you stage to see if our connection translates in person. If we're lucky enough to "to catching lightning in a bottle" then I would look forward to tapping into those deeper, edgy areas that only a Masterful man can explore.

I have much to share with someone like yourself and I look forward to your reply. To commence, please include a proper introduction along with a clear photo of both your face as well as stature.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAustrian
BuildA few extra pounds
Height185 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairMoustache
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedNo

Situation

Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyResearch / Science / Engineering
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$100,000 - $250,000
Job TitleExec for a large global corp.

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Great skills, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchSomeone like you....
Our first dateUs getting to know one another

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isMaster
I am seekingA sub
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Collar & lead / leash, Cupping, Depilation / shaving, Electro torture, Fisting, Genital torture, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesExhibitionism, High Heels, Lactation, Pantyhose / Stockings, Shoes / Boots, Tongue Fetish

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:At least once a day
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Group sex with swapping
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Fetish clubs, Swapping parties, Dungeon clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isIt's how I get aroused
Anal sex isFun sometimes
Sex toys:All of the above and more!
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Scat

Sexual Fantasies

Fantasy locationDark alley, Bleachers of a stadium, Hot tub, Movie theatre, On the beach, Restaurant

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Other
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Stinging